Author Archives: Julia Royston

September 2024 – Building, Birthing or Becoming?

n nine months, a whole human being can be birthed into the world. I’ve never birthed a child but I have birthed a business, ministry, career and life. I realize that birthing a child and birthing a business don’t compare, so mothers don’t come for me. But on the other hand, whatever you are birthing, building or becoming will come from the inside. Your head, heart, will and soul must be in one accord to birth anything. The people may come next. The notoriety may never come but know that God is watching, giving you His strength, courage, wisdom and wanting you to Win!

In the next four months, you can get a lot done, make a start or stand back and get nothing done. It’s left up to you. Let me encourage you to not stop by, visit or stay at ‘regret land.’ That’s what I call it when you look at the end of your life and have nothing but regrets. I don’t care if you start 1,000 things and learned a lot but not considered an International success. You are a success to me because you had an idea, went forth and not matter the results, have no regrets. No matter if your building, birthing or becoming, you’re living and moving.

If you need me, let’s have a conversation by scheduling it at www.talkwithroyston.com. Let’s go!

Julia

#bookbusinessboss

P. S. We are on the move this September and October at these upcoming events. Let’s go!

Study:  Pause to Power for the Next 5 Months

Back to School marks the end of summer, the beginning of new learning opportunities and the sign that we have already experienced more months in this year than we have left until the end of the year.  There are five months remaining in the year.  More than half of the year is gone.  New books, new school clothes and hopefully, you have a new outlook on what you need, want or desire to get accomplished over the next 5 months.  

Take some time.  Do a quiet, deep dive into yourself, your goals and your life.  Remember your why.  Revisit your dreams.  Move forward with all of your might.

More than anything else, Study YOU!!  You are the most important person in this situation and the person that will take the steps necessary to live your best life.  

Who are you?

What do you really love to do?

Who is most important to you and why?

What do you really want to get done before the clocks strikes midnight on December 31, 2024?

Let’s go!

If you need help or a conversation, schedule a conversation at www.talkwithroyston.com.  

Julia

#bookbusinessboss

July, the Best Half Decisions to Make

Whether you do nothing or work your hardest until December 31st, it’s your decision.  I have already made some decisions in my life and business that will impact the remainder of the year and over into 2025.  That’s how I plan.  It’s not for everyone but that’s how I do it.  God starts downloading into me this time of the year about the upcoming year.  At the end of the five years after retirement, I asked Him and He told me about the next five years.  After that, I don’t know anything else but I have my orders for the next four years.  Yes sir and ma’am, the first year of that plan has already ended.  We are already moving into year two.  That’s how He deals with me.  I have had to let go of some things and start some other things.  I have had to change my mindset and do some things that I thought I would never do.  Not anything illegal or immoral and I didn’t post that I would ‘never’, but just thought it and God heard me. Now, I’ve got to do it, try it, learn it and hopefully, succeed with it.  It’s a struggle because I like the way I do things sometimes but my results made me have to make some other decisions.  Apologize to yourself and to God, then get moving.  The Best Half of the year is left up to you.  I can’t decide for you but we can talk about it.  Schedule a time at www.talkwithroyston.com.  I’ll let you go for now because you have some decisions to make.  

Let’s go!

Julia

#bookbusinessboss

P. S.  Join me online or in-person for these events on the graphics attached.  Hope to see you soon. 

June is Jumping!  Live Your Best Life!

The summer is in full swing.  Travel plans have been made. Vacations are in full swing.  Festivals are planned, set-up scheduled and ready for the vendors and people to arrive.  The sundresses, shorts and flip flops are in full effect.  June is Jumping!  How are you moving?  In spite of others coming and going, buying, selling, growing and streamlining, you might be stuck, waiting, no plans, no movement at all just maintaining.  That’s okay but is that because of fear, lack of focus or fatigue.  This is Men’s Mental Health Month and I encourage the men to take your own self-analysis and take care of your mental health needs but ladies, we should all be joining in on this process as well.  The year is almost half over.  How are you?  That’s a personal question that only you can answer.  Take some time on the cruise, by the pool or in the back yard to reflect and journal some thoughts and ideas.  Go to the nearby park, river or walking path and while you’re walking and enjoying nature, say a prayer, ask for guidance and listen for the answer.

Self awareness, quiet and clarity are all a part of living the best life possible in your career, business and family.  Once you get clarity, take action, set due dates or resign completely from those activities that no longer meet the qualifications of the current season of your life.  Life is too short to continue to do things that once were but no longer fit the now. 

If you need my help, let’s have a conversation at www.talkwithroyston.com.  Let’s go!

Julia

#bookbusinessboss

May:  The Middle, Mama and Memories

May is here!!  Yes, I am a little late and it is almost the 10^th of the month but May is still a wonderful month to me.  Why?  It’s my birthday on the 29^th, so many people graduate and start new chapters in their life, it’s Mother’s Day and Memorial Day.  But first, it’s the middle month of the second quarter of the year.  Never thought of that did you?  God did and reminded me that the middle or the half way or the in between of life can be just as important as how you start and how you finish.  The middle will help you get to the finish.  It’s that difficult middle that pushes you and produces fortitude and tenacity.  It’s the middle that determines whether you keep going or just stop altogether.  Why?  The middle is where the challenges start, the obstacles appear and the first signs of discouragement arise.  Some of you, it happened before you even started but for others, you had no sign that there would be a problem.  You notice that there is a common phrase, “Girl, I’m in the middle of a storm or in the middle of a mess.”  The middle.  But take courage that no matter what is going on, in the middle of a storm, mess, test or blessing, God is with you.  That’s enough right there to keep going knowing that God is with you.  Enjoy the rest of the month no matter when you read this.  Because the middle is where God shows up and shows out for His children.  Keep going.

Whether you have your mama still with you or she is resting in your heart and mind, celebrate Mother’s Day!  Even with tears in your eyes, remember the good stuff, laugh out loud, repeat some of her sayings and walk proud knowing that she taught you well.  My mother is still alive, I call her everyday and seek to honor and celebrate her by the life that I live each and every day.  Happy Mother’s Day!

Memorial Day is always special because we are primarily remembering those who fought in wars, battles and skirmishes for our country.  This Memorial Day remember all of the wars, battles and skirmishes you survived whether in military service or the fights for your family, sanity and life.  Remember always to be thankful for life, liberty and the Lord!

If we need to have a conversation, let’s talk at www.talkwithroyston.com. 

Julia

#bookbusinessboss

#Maythemiddle